Letters To Our Maddie: Everything is A-OK!

Dearest Baby B,

Well....we sure had an eventful, long weekend (and not so much in the good way)! So where to start? Starting on Friday, I felt like I was going to the bathroom every 10 minutes; and when I would go, I'd be lucky if more than a few drops came out. Although my nursing judgment told me differently, I convinced myself that it was just part of being 31 weeks pregnant (they say at that point the baby is squishing your bladder and you are constantly using the bathroom). By the time I went to work that night, I had become extremely frustrated with the situation and was growing uncomfortable. At that point I also started to get an annoying pain to the right side of my mid-back. For an hour I could not get comfortable or sit still, but then out of no where the pain subsided and the bathroom situation was a little better. After all, I was able to work a full 12 hours.

Then Saturday morning rolled around and I came home and tried to get some rest. I was back to being uncomfortable. I slept a few hours and then gave up hope. I told Daddy that we needed to go do something to distract me, otherwise all I could think about was the constant urge to go to the bathroom and have minimal results. On a good note though, my back was feeling better! Eventually we decided to go grab some dinner with some friends. Of course I felt fine until we sat down at dinner. The pain was coming back and the longer we sat, the more intense the pain got. We thought maybe it was the uncomfortable chairs at the table. I tried sitting and standing but nothing seemed to help. It eventually got to a point I couldn't eat my dinner and I started to get nauseous.

So Daddy and I came home. Daddy actually went back out to get me a heating pad from grandma and grandpa. I tried to make myself comfortable, but it seemed impossible. I just tossed and turned in bed, until I was so uncomfortable that I threw up twice. At that point I realized a call to the dr was probably due (even if it was 11pm). And just as I expected her to say...she wanted us to come in to the hospital. So we made our first long trek to the hospital (side note: 11:30pm would be an ok time for labor because traffic was not an issue).

Thankfully we were able to go straight to the Labor & Delivery unit and avoid the chaos of the Saturday night ER. Within 20 min they had gotten my urine specimen, drawn my blood, hooked me up to the fetal monitor, and started giving me fluids. They were suspecting some type of urinary/kidney infection or kidney stones. Thankfully, Baby B, you looked great - good heart beat and no contractions. The problem was making me comfortable. After some mild relief from hot packs, I managed to fall asleep for about an hour. Only to wake up extremely uncomfortable and sick to my stomach. At this point I think it was decided that I would be spending the night. They had started my antibiotics and wanted to keep an eye on us. I was still vomiting and extremely uncomfortable (I was continuously tossing and turning). So they did have to give me some Morphine to make me comfortable (which didn't really work). Thankfully you were still bouncing around all over the place so I knew you were ok even after the medications.

Once they got us moved to our room (and I got sick again) they were able to give me something for the vomiting and then some Tylenol. Finally I was feeling some relief and was able to sleep for about 3 hour; until everyone started making rounds to see me again. We had hoped to go home that night, but the Dr. wanted one more night of IV antibiotics; so we stayed. Thankfully though I was feeling much better. By Monday morning, I was pain free and definitely ready to get out of there!

We were discharged by noon and on our way home. On the way home I started to feel somewhat "blah" again but still much better. Until I got to our house and tried to get in our house only to realize that our dead-bolt lock was broken and the key was just spinning...and of course I didn't have the garage door opener and Daddy was at work. Thankfully your grandparents live so close and I was able to go relax there.

As the night went on I was feeling bad again. I barely slept during the night because I just could not get comfortable. My back was hurting and I was nauseous. Eventually morning rolled around and I truly felt as bad as I did Saturday night when I went in to the hospital. My big concern at this point was how crampy I started to feel and how my abdomen was feeling hard more often. Thankfully they were able to squeeze me into the dr that morning. Once there they hoped me up to the monitor and there were definitely some contractions going on...so back to the hospital we went.

By the time we had got there, the contractions had stopped or were very very small and I was not dilated - so they were no longer concerned about labor. They told us you were still tightly closed in there so that was a huge relief. Mommy, however, was still very uncomfortable. They ran tests to check everything out...and of course everything was normal. Which was a big relief to everyone, except for the fact they could not figure out where all the discomfort was coming from. Needless to say I pretty much had everyone stumped.

By 7pm that night I was feeling better and for the first time in 2 days was somewhat hungry. Thankfully they saw no reason to keep me. They are continuing to treat it as a urinary tract/kidney infection and have me on antibiotics for the remainder of the pregnancy. The additional pain they believe may be from how you are positioned or may be the way my back is reacting to the additional weight I'm carrying. Bottom line was that you were doing great and saw no signs of you coming earlier than March 11th. And as long as you are okay, then Mommy can deal with the discomforts.

After a great night sleep last night, Mommy was feeling much MUCH better this morning. By the afternoon the pain has come back slightly, but I think we've got it under control with the heating pad and Tylenol. So we are doing good again.

Now a quick update on you...

You are now the size of a head of lettuce: